before and after inner child work
Life without unhealed trauma looks like:
having an eye roll, head shake and a laugh when I remember something difficult
vs.
spiraling for weeks and shaking my fist at the sky “how could my parents DO that??”
being relaxed enough in my success, marriage, and mothering enough to actually do what’s needed to grow it bigger
vs.
being afraid it’s all going to be taken away, so overworking in the wrong areas, spreading myself way too thin, and risking burnout (again). Putting all of my energy into scarcity informed maintenance instead of growth. A horizontal smearing vs a vertical climbing.
noticing the recurring patterns as milestones to new growth. “Feeling a lot of shame lately. Must be about to breakthrough financially. Let’s apply the protocol to move through this faster.”
NOTE: I’m not saying I never deal with shame again. I’m saying I DEAL with shame quickly, privately, and efficiently
vs.
staying stuck, permanently stuck, because “I have a lot of shame/trauma/fear” whatever your soup of the decade is
improved conditions in all areas of my life, as well as a shameless desiring of even MORE improvement in all areas of my life as well as zero stalling on the progress bar. Every day I get closer. Tangibly closer.
vs.
stuck
Trusting in the flow of my life and not discouraged when I don’t get my way
vs.
clinging to control
cool with my parents and the reality of our uncomplicated relationship
vs.
it being complicated
rich, stoked, married 9 years, three kids, self employed, creative, and down for it
vs.
broke, dating people I couldn’t possibly IMAGINE having kids with so becoming convinced I never wanted kids and one more thing
being ME as a mom
vs.
hearing the voice of my mom come out of my mouth and finally, I get whatever the fuck I want. If I don’t have it, I don’t want it. If I want it, I’m going to get it vs. Wishing and hoping and never moving forward
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